NO EXCUSES!

Before we start today's post, I want you to sit there and spend a little time to remember ALL of your past mistakes, ex boyfriends/girlfriends, bad memories and anything else negative that has happened to you in your past. Remember how upset you felt? Remember that feeling of disappointment? Remember that feeling of hurt? Terrible feeling right? So, why am I getting you to do this, have I gone insane? Not at all! I now want you to put all of those thoughts into a little bottle, pack that bottle deep with every single negative memory you have and lock it away so that you can never get to it ever again! 

The aim of this little task, was to make sure you have locked away ALL EXCUSES, so that you have nothing left to blame. Too many people fail, and always have an excuse they can use to sugar coat their failure. Why not acknowledge it? Understand that you just weren't good enough...YET! Then do your all to get up, give it all you have and do not stop until you succeed! As I said before, "If I fall 100 times, then I will get up 101 times!" Let me say it again, GIVE IT ALL YOU HAVE AND DO NOT STOP UNTIL YOU SUCCEED! It's not your ex boyfriends fault you stopped exercises and started eating rubbish, it was your choice. It was your choice to stop working out because a few people were calling you names. You had a choice, It was your decision to give up. You could of bounced back, proved those doubters wrong, proved those haters wrong, proved to your ex boyfriend that he could not bring you down. It was your choice!

Now the last thing I want to do is come across negative or mean, this is not my aim. My aim is to try and get you to understand that YOU are in control of YOUR body and YOUR mind, not anyone else, but YOU! I've told you to believe, to have a reason and now I'm telling you to forget the excuses! I say it again, do not let the past, have a negative effect on your future. Learn from your mistakes, learn from your past and do not stop working until you succeed!

Now I totally understand when things don't go your way it's easy to just give up and have an excuse. I to have experienced it. I to have people who doubt me. I to have doubted myself. I just don't let these people get to me. I will NEVER use these people as an excuse for when I fail, I will NEVER blame my asthma for when I want to quit and I will NEVER use my epilepsy as an excuse not to push myself. Why? Because I have goals, just like you! I have aims, just like you! And I want to succeed, just like you! 

"I refuse to be normal. I refuse to be average"

Now to round this all up, I just don't understand why you would ever let someone who you have left in the past (for a valid reason), try dampen your future. You have the opportunity to better your future, no matter what you've been through, no matter what you've experienced, you have a chance to change your life... SO DO IT! Work hard, cut the excuses and you will succeed! Did you hear me? Let me repeat that for you... YOU WILL SUCCEED! Now to leave you with a little quote;

"Do not let your past ruin your future, make the rest of your life, the best of your life!"

Hadee x